The psychology of the dead:
Understanding our existence, fear and dealing with ghost pranks.
November 04th, 2006 by
Augustine Towonsing
Introduction.
The IGHS has pointed out that
ghosts are people too or part of people anyway that are governed by
emotional stimuli. Therefore, understanding the psychology of
earthbound spirits is very important not only for the ghost
investigator but also for people in general as that can enlighten
our fear and lessen unnecessary depression that is related to the
pranks played by spirits of the dead. Furthermore, death is the
beginning of a new life that sheds off the physical body so that we
can exist at a higher level of spiritual realm.
Our
existence in future dimension.
However, it seems not that easy to
even exist in the spiritual realm unless we can settle every issue
that holds us onto the physical world. In fact, the experiences from
those who underwent Near Death Experience (NDE) somewhat revealed
what would happen beyond death.
Furthermore, most of those who
experienced a NDE emphasize that our existence in the spiritual
realm is based upon our words, thoughts and deeds while on the
earth. In fact, what Dannion Brinkley revealed actually is similar
to what have David Fellin and Henry Throne experienced during 14
days of being entombed inside the coal mine
http://www.edconrad.com/lifeafterdeath/page3.html back in 1963, hence revealing that in
order to earn our place in the spiritual realm, we must live our
lives to the fullest. I believe, the phrase to ‘live to the fullest’
simply means to live in peace is that is free from destructive
emotion that creates havoc to our existence in the present day that
may alter our presence in our future dimension.
However, my understanding
regarding the phrase ‘words, thoughts and action’ actually has links
to our emotional state that is embedded within our inner self. I
would like to point out that an emotional stimulus is somehow
related to our thinking that basically makes up our personality.
Moreover, one’s emotional state somehow brings great impact on how
someone behaves. Let me explain the link between one’s emotional
states with one’s psychology. Most of the time either positive or
negative emotions will reflect one’s own behaviour. Perhaps our
facial expression somewhat mirrors the state of our emotions. In
fact, positive or destructive emotions followed by positive or
negative attitude somehow will give impact to the people around us.
Furthermore, negative emotion generates negative energy that will
affect our psychology. Why we are able to sense the emotional state
of others is because our inner soul that exists in the form of
energy that is embedded within us senses the presence of either
positive or negative energy.
Understanding
psychology of the dead.
In line with this discussion, why
is it so important for us to understand the psychology of the dead?
Perhaps by understanding the basic nature of humans, and when we
consider the spirits who exist in our domain as people therefore, we
will definitely be able to understand the nature of earthbound
spirits. Furthermore, by implementing respect and reverence for the
dead simply means to show our acceptance towards the spirit.
Let’s begin to see the nature of
spirit existence. Some people claim that they have seen faceless
ghosts, ghosts with normal faces or with horrible looking faces. To
see a ghost is one’s special ability that not everyone has. In my
opinion, a person’s emotional state will mirror one’s facial
expression that expresses his/ her emotional state whether he/she is
happy, sad, angry or in whatever emotional state for that moment. In
fact, in real life we often see people’s facial expression that
expresses their emotional state that may sometimes be caused by
anger and end with results that we tend to avoid because of the
negative energy that they radiate towards others.
Therefore, this explanation also
applies to the facial expression of the ghost that expresses their
emotional state. Ghost without a face may relate to the empty mind
state or being confused. Meanwhile, a horrible looking face may
relate to anger or depression. I believe that by understanding the
facial expression and the behaviour patterns of ghost are the
easiest way to understand their psychological state. However, most
often the spirits of the dead may send the energy to cloud our mind
that makes us feel scared, angry, threatened or depressed instead of
showing their appearance to the living because the impact is the
same and to appear in full apparition somehow requires their
intelligence to reassemble a lot of energy. Furthermore, the energy
that the ghost radiates can be sensed by our emotional intelligence.
Often the ghost researcher records
the voices of the dead that communicates during investigations. In
fact, the spirit psychology also can be analysed through the EVP. In
my case, someone recently sent me video clips that record nothing
but only an EVP with a very low voice that almost could not be
heard. However after further analysis, the EVP contained two words
i.e. “young man” and after applying reverse speech on those words,
the EVP revealed the name of the person who was recording the video.
Therefore, it is through their voices captured through the EVP that
wanted to communicate with us some message within their psychology
state.
Therefore, it is very important
for us to understand the psychology of spirits of the dead. The fact
is, we fear because we cannot understand the nature of spirit
existence, we will start labelling them as ‘demonic’ and we want to
destroy the source of our fear. Even worse, if we ourselves don’t
have the ability to manage our negative emotions that the IGHS have
pointed out, that unstable emotion will create and send out energy
that will attract the low level spirits. Furthermore, most often
people think that exorcism is the best way to remove malevolent
spirits, but the IGHS found that exorcisms will not work. Therefore,
the best way to deal with the malevolent spirit is to understand the
psychology of the death by altering our own attitude to be more
positive.
Malevolent spirits may harm us
especially when we force the spirit to depart. As IGHS recommended,
in order to deal with malevolent spirits, we ourselves must deal
with the sources that make our emotions become unstable that in turn
make us psychologically ill.
Conclusion.
Therefore, it should be clear
enough to us that understanding the nature and the psychology of the
spirits of dead are very important for us because that emotion holds
the key to either positive or negative energy we send out that will
attract the spirit according to the energy we send out.
Finally, if we understand the
psychology the spirit of dead and we have an effort to show respect
and reverence towards them in a positive manner, the spirit will do
the same towards us. First of all, we must not forget that we are
generating energy through our emotions and thoughts. In fact,
without our realization sometimes we use harsh words that generate
energy that makes the listener become depressed or stimulates anger
in them. Therefore, to live in harmony we need to learn to forgive,
forget and heal. I think this is the great key that holds our
emotional intelligence that not only has a positive impact to those
around us but also gives assurance to our existence in the future
dimension as well our paranormal field investigations.
Augustine Towonsing,
CGR, CPI, CEVP, PDP, CI, CPC